Falling Isn’t the End: How God Uses Failure to Shape Us

“For a righteous man may fall seven times and rise again,
But the wicked shall fall by calamity.”

— Proverbs 24:16

“Now to Him who is able to keep you from stumbling,
and to present you faultless before the presence of His glory with exceeding joy…”

— Jude 24

Failure is something we all experience.
It humbles us.
It unsettles us.
It exposes our weaknesses, our pride, and our unmet expectations.

But here’s the good news: God is not surprised by our failure.
And He is not undone by it.
In fact, He can use it more powerfully than we imagine.

The Truth About Falling

Jude reminds us that God is able to keep us from stumbling—and yet, we know we do stumble. We falter. We fall. So how do we reconcile these two truths?

Here’s how: God’s ability to hold us doesn’t mean we never fall. It means we’re never beyond His reach when we do.

He knows that failure, when placed in His hands, becomes a refining tool.
It softens us.
It shapes us.
It makes us more aware of our need for grace—and more willing to extend it to others.

Failure Isn’t Final—Unless You Quit

Peter is one of Scripture’s most relatable examples.

He told Jesus boldly, “Even if everyone else stumbles, I never will.” (Matthew 26:33)

Jesus gently, but truthfully, told him otherwise. And sure enough, Peter denied Christ three times before morning broke.

But Peter’s failure didn’t begin with his denial.
It began with overconfidence—the belief that he was above falling.

That’s often where our own stumbling starts.
Not in the mistake itself, but in the pride that thinks we never could.

What We Do After Matters Most

When we fail, the temptation is to focus so fully on the failure that we forget God’s grace.

We say things like:

  • “God can’t use me anymore.”

  • “My ministry is over.”

  • “I’ve ruined everything.”

  • “This is who I am now.”

But the truth is, failure is never final unless we quit trying.

As long as we keep getting back up, keep learning, and keep moving forward with a surrendered heart, God is still at work.

“He who began a good work in you will be faithful to complete it…” (Philippians 1:6)

The Righteous Fall—But They Rise

Proverbs draws a striking contrast:
The righteous may fall again and again—but they rise.
The wicked fall and stay down.

Why the difference?
Because the righteous understand that failure is part of growth.
That stumbling doesn’t disqualify them from grace.
That God’s strength is made perfect in weakness.

Failure can destroy us.
Or it can shape us.
And the difference often lies in whether we’re willing to let God meet us in the middle of it.

God’s Definition of Success

God’s idea of success isn’t perfection.
It’s perseverance.

It’s humility.
It’s willingness to learn.
It’s openness to correction.
It’s the refusal to give up—even after we fall.

Failure can be one of the greatest teachers we’ll ever have.
It can remove our rough edges, soften our hearts, and redirect our paths.
It can teach us what not to do—and how to walk in deeper dependence on the One who never fails.

A Final Word of Encouragement

If you’ve fallen recently—or if you’re sitting in the aftermath of something you wish had gone differently—know this:

God is not finished with you.
He’s not ashamed of you.
And He doesn’t define you by your worst moment.

Bring your failure to Him.
Let Him shape it into wisdom.
Let Him use it for good.

And then… get back up.

Because you’re not alone.
And He’s not done yet.

5 thoughts on “Falling Isn’t the End: How God Uses Failure to Shape Us

  1. Sandy – Our God is great and good. I have a close friend who stumbled in his ministry and thought everything was over. But God moved him to a new level of ministry and I think he is being used in many more ways now than ever before. God doesn’t ever let us down!

  2. There is a couple whose name escapes me right now, who do a lot of public speaking, or used to. They had a baby who was under a year old, who was seated in the bathtub, and the mother ran away to check on some barking dogs, and was only gone for a very short time, but that was enough time for her son to drown and not be able to be revived.

    They have other children, and they are qualified to speak on failure and forgiveness, both from God, and for each other.

    They said they had an acronym — FIGO — which means, “Forget it and go on.” I like that. It reminds me of Paul saying,” Forgetting that which is behind, I press on . . .”

    Great entry, Sandy.

    How was the wedding?

  3. Hi Lynn,
    The wedding was beautiful. Now my children are married and that’s feeling a bit odd 🙂 but overall everything was wonderful. I’m glad to be back home and will be even more glad to get back into my regular routine. I’m hoping to be more online now as soon as I get everything caught back up. Thanks for your prayers. How’s your daughter doing?

  4. They are finished with the two VBS ministries and all the church presentations they were scheduled to do — quite an exhausting schedule — and one chaperone and one student got sick and are now in the hospital, but we are glad for them to be out of the jungle town and back in the main city, so they can receive care. The sickness did not stop the ministry, and they feel encouraged by all they have been able to do, and the response of the children has blessed them, so I’ve heard through the phone chain.

    Tomorrow they will spend the whole day resting and sightseeing, and perhaps some open air oportunities for the mime skits they do, and then on Wednesday, more rest and they need to be at the airport late in the afternoon. Lord willing, we will see them Thursday, early afternoon, back where we are!

    Please keep praying for a safe trip home for them. Thanks for asking.

    I’m glad the wedding was beautiful, and went well.

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